Memories...

    Few days ago (may be 2 months) I (I’ m from Bangladesh) met an woman (in Philippines) in Facebook. We become friend and we were doing very well. I found she have many friends on facebook (more than 500). And she is also very helpful, open minded and true believer. After few days I got that, she got hurt by some of her friend and was depressed. I tried to console her. Then we become so closer. We share many times and many feelings. One of a time, I said her about Islam and ask her what she think about this. She replied, she have many Muslim friends, all of these are good. But she didn’t know about Islam specifically. She was "Iglesia Ni Christo" and Husband was "Catholic". Her husband converted into "Iglesia Ni Christo" for her love. They love each other since she was 16 or 18. Now she is 35 and they have 3 children, happy family.

  But when I inform her about Islam, she was so excited and move, that she wanted to learn more. Then I gave her some information like "Sign of Qyamat", Some special Hadith, etc etc...... At last after 1-2 week she decided to convert. But her family was totally against her. So I decided to recite her Kalima Shadat online. One night I ask her to take a bath (then recite Kalima Shatadat with me. That Day she was so crying and I found a new woman in her.

   I send her Sura and teach her Salah, but when she’s start to do that, her husband became angry and they argue too much. Then she said to me. She was too strong when husband talking to him but when she look at her child crying, she can’t handle that. She gave up and said to husband that, she will be again like before.

    Her husband like her to be cheering and wearing short dress ( which forbidden to Islam) But she is trying now to wear long sleeve. Her husband still suspect her when he find her wearing such dress. Even her husband didn’t like her chatting too much in fb. But now, he allowed her to chat with fb friends and said, it’s better than you accepting Islam. They fight 3 times for that. And she decided to give up finally. Then I request her to give me days, She have to follow my instructions. .

I sent her a copy of Quran and said her to recite Sura Fatiha She memorized Sura Fatiha, Ikhlas, Kawsar, Tashahud, Darude Ibraheem. And I m trying to make her memorize Aytul Kursi. I give her Process of Salah details. She is following these ...when Husband not home.

     In these few days, she change much, and she really want to be in Islam. But her husband told her clearly, if he see anything wrong, He can do whatever he like (even leave her). Now she is very scared. How long she can make it. And I’m scared too. Coz as long as I know her, she is too much soft minded, and her family can easily make her gave up. She said me once that- When She was crying, her young son come to her and said- mom, why do u do like that? She replied- I want all of u in safe at after life. Her son said- Mom its good not to be safe, but please don’t break our family.

    I found that the love between their husband and wife is so deep. But her husband never allowed Islam anyway.

     Dear brother..... please tell me...What should be her next step...so that She can be stay here in safe. May Allah help us all. Ameen

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     It's been 3 years when this situation happen Alhamdulillah! Allah gave this woman to saw Islam through that brother many things change many trials came good and bad, but she still holding in rope of Allah Her believed never change there are times she wants to gave up but ALLAH is good He always show sign to let her know how blessed she are to been choose to become Muslim... She believed everything happen has a reason even its too painful to accept such things that you can't imagine will happen as you hold for some promises that no one leave you. She learned that she don't need anyone else to be strong or happy she just need Her Lord Allah who love her unconditionally and never break his heart. Alhamdulillah! Ya Allah for everything still she coping day by day for the test of life... Life that brings too much tears in her eyes and she know well everything will end, every tears will dry and every broken heart will fix on that day she will meet His Lord Allah...Now she trying to be good and walk towards her Lord the road is long and many torn but she believed, she have faith and she knows Allah is with her....

May Allah guide us all to the right way and safe us and have Mercy on us.Ameen

Dua for Forgiveness..

O Allah! 

Forgive me all my sins, 

great and small,

the first and the last, 

those that are apparent 

and those that are hidden.

Ameen

Tears...

The Prophet said, 'There is nothing more beloved to Allah than two drops and two marks: A tear shed due to fear of Allah, and a drop of blood spilled in the path of Allah. And as for the two marks, then a mark caused in the path of Allah, and a mark caused by fulfilling one of the duties made obligatory by Allah."

(Hasan - collected by at-Tirmidhee and al-Mishkaat: 3837)

Hijab...

 

 

 

  I'm not oppressed nor a prisoner
I'm a slave/ servant of my Lord
I covered because I obeyed
To protect myself
From this sinful world of Dunya...

Alone in Tears...

The love that we shared

The dreams that we built

It’s already gone now

The broken promises of you

Tears continues pouring

Missing those memories of you

Time that I still have you

The first time I saw

The day that we spent together

The tears and laughter

Is just a history of love

Loved full of hope

How come it’s just fade away?

Like death leaves

Like death desert

My heart is death now

Day you left me alone in tears….

Choose to changed...

Assalamu Alaykum Wa Rahamtullah Wa Barakatuh...

    I'm a revert Muslima new in Islam still searching knowledge, myself, my life and how to live as Muslima. Alhamdulillah almost 3 years when my Lord Allah gave me a chanced to accept Islam and be His servant all this years days I am lost and lived in sins I can't imagine my life without Him. During the times of difficulties problems trials in life I'm so easy to give up and lose hope and there was a time I'm trying to killed myself to end everything Astagfirullah May Allah forgive us.Ameen

Quran says:

 "Be sure We shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods, lives, and the fruits of your toil. But give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere. Those who say, when afflicted with calamity, 'To Allah we belong, and to Him is our return.' They are those on whom descend blessings from their Lord, and mercy. They are the ones who receive guidance." (2:155-157)

   But when times He came to my life and show to me the light Alhamdulillah He always lift me up when times I'm in troubles and feeling down He always makes me feel I am not alone that He always beside me. I knew those time I'm still lack in knowledge and still weak for many things specially when hearts matter about friendship and attached to those people who become closed to me either sisters or brothers. I am a person who have soft heart love to cared, and loved to make other smiled even most of the time I am the one who felt pain and hurt, too much attached to them sometimes makes me feel lost and cried. Too much is always wrong. I always prayed and asked Allah to make me strong regarding this matters. Alhamdulillah day by day He teaches me to accept all the situation that everything happen have a reason every person came to your life will leave and changed because this life is just a test a temporary life everything will come and go for reasons.

"Verily man is in loss, except such as have faith, and do righteous deeds, and join together in the mutual enjoining of truth, and of patience and constancy." (103:2-3)

  As a Muslim we should not let our emotion above us we need to learned to controlled our feelings when this world matters. All we need is to put our Trust to Allah and Trust Him do good deeds, forbid wrong love one other for Allah's sake and be a good servant and slave to Him. We are believers in this life we must continue to live with Faith and Trust, Sooner or later you will found what for all the things you sacrificed for the patience and perseverance you give Allah will love you for obeying and walk to His path with smile in your heart.

"It is not righteousness that you turn your faces towards East or West.
But it is righteousness to believe in Allah and the Last Day,
And the Angels, and the Book, and the Messengers;
To spend of your substance, out of love for Him,
For your kin, for orphans, for the needy,
for the wayfarer, for those who ask, and for the ransom of slaves;
To be steadfast in prayer
And give in charity;
To fulfill the contracts which you have made;
And to be firm and patient, in pain and adversity
And throughout all periods of panic.
Such are the people of truth, the God-fearing.
Qur'an 2:177

Verily, with every difficulty there is relief.
Verily, with every difficulty there is relief.
Qur'an 94:5-6

     Alhamdulillah Allah gave me the courage to do a thing to leave everything for His sake and for my husband and family too.. Now I live with smiled and courage to continue this life with Hope, Trust and love and I knew one day I'll become a good Muslima In'sha Allah...

It's time to focus learning and doing good things May Allah help us.Ameen

May Allah help and guide us.Ameen

Ash-Shifa bint 'Abdullah al-Qurashiyyah al-Adawiyah...

The Companion Ash-Shifa bint 'Abdullah al-Qurashiyyah al-Adawiyyah was one of the wise women of her time. Literate in an illiterate age, she was skilled in medicine, involved in public administration, and had a strong presence in early Muslim history.

Al-Shifa embraced Islam before the Hijrah, and was one of the earliest to migrate from Makkah

to Madinah. She took the Pledge or Bay'ah to the Messenger, declaring loyalty to him before witnesses when it was still a dangerous thing to do.

Her real name may have been Laylah. Ash-Shifa is a title derived from her profession as a medicine woman; it means "healing." She used to conduct preventative treatments against antbite before the advent of Islam. After Hijrah, she approached the Prophet, and said, "Oh Messenger of Allah, I used to do preventative medicine for antbites during Jahiliyyah, and I want to demonstrate it for you."

He said, "Demonstrate it."

Ash-Shifa said, "So I demonstrated it for him, and he said '[continue to] do this, and teach it to Hafsah [a wife of the Prophet]." In another version he said, "Why dont you teach this one [indicating Hafsah] the preventative medicine against antbites, just as you taught her how to write?" She apparently taught Hafsah, and probably others, to write, at the personal request of the Prophet.

The Messenger used to visit her in her own home so frequently that she set aside a mat and a cover, or izar, for his use when he took his siesta there. She kept these momentos until her death and passed them on to her children.

The Messenger (peace be upon him) gave her title to a house in the Hakakin area of Madinah. His value for her company influenced the caliphs. As Caliph, 'Umar used to defer to her opinion. 'Umar's respect for Ash-Shifa's competence, character, and judgement led him to appoint her as an officer, or wali, in the administration of the marketplace. This makes her possibly the first Muslim woman to hold an official position in public administration.

Ash-Shifa narrates a good number of ahadith. Many Companions narrate ahadith on her authority, including Hafsah.

With her forceful character, influential counsel, and multiple professional skills, Ash-Shifa bint 'Abdullah must have been a major figure in early Muslim society, probably a household name.

 

 

Suicide...

Suicide is killing oneself due to problem, illness, depression the main problem here is depression due too loose of family or friends, breaks-up with love ones, financial problem and many more.

I read about suicide that if there is anyone who got suicide people see that person soul here and there. Some times on that place where suicide happen most of them says there soul will go to hell, Nauzubillah SUICIDE is one a great sin!! Allah don’t like people who commit suicide. Allah is the One who gave life to us and He’s the Only One have right to take this life to us. Quran says:

" How can you disbelieve? Seeing that you were dead and He gave you life. Then He will give you death, then again will bring you to life (on the Day of Resurrection) and then unto Him you will return." (Surah Al-Baqarah Verse 28)

Allah created us for a purpose to worship Him we should protect our self for any harm even we face many difficulties in life we should believe in Him. Quran says:

"And I (Allah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)". (Surah Adh-Dhariyat Verse 56)

For these verses we will know well what our real purpose in life and how precious our life is we should obey believed and trust Only Him Allah knows what best for us we will face trials we just need to keep patience and believed we are Muslim suicide have no place when you believed. Quran says:

"Be sure We shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods, lives, and the fruits of your toil. But give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere. Those who say, when afflicted with calamity, 'To Allah we belong, and to Him is our return.' They are those on whom descend blessings from their Lord, and mercy. They are the ones who receive guidance." (Surah Al-Baqarah:155-157)

"Oh you who believe! Seek help with patient perseverance and prayer, for God is with those who patiently persevere." (2:153)

When a person commit suicide their soul go to Sijjin. What is Sijjin?

Sijjin The term / sijjin / is based on / sijn / which has different meanings, such as: 'prison, hard, anything hard, a terrible place in the bottom of Hell'; the place where the records of the Wicked are held, and it is a proper name for the fire of Hell.

This word sijjin mention in Quran  "Nay.' Most surely the Record of the Wicked is (preserved) in Sijjin. And what informs you of what 'Sijjin' is? It is) a Register (fully) inscribed. Woe, That Day, to the deniers, Quran Sura Mutaffifin 83:7-10

'Sijjin' means 'the ledger of the deeds of the Wicked', and in the second one it means Hell or the bottom of the earth. And it is clear that these are 'causes and effects' for each other. That is, when the record of a person is registered in 'the ledger of the deeds of the Wicked', it results in their being sent to the lowest point of Hell.

Suicide in most of the cases is a result of hopelessness and despair. Suicide attempt is also a cause of impatience. Someone who is in deep trouble may find it easy to commit suicide. This means that such person did not believe that even in most difficult situations God has the authority to help His servants. Quran strictly prohibit despair feelings and says:  Quran says:

"O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins: for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.  ( Quran 39:53)

In order to attain in depth analysis of this crucial issue in the light of Quran it is necessary to get guidance from another source of Islamic law i.e. the traditions of Holy Prophet (Peace be Upon Him), which prove that the person who commit suicide renders himself liable for punishment in the world Hereafter. So the Holy Prophet said: .....And if somebody commits suicide with anything in this world, he will be tortured with that very thing on the Day of Resurrection; And if somebody curses a believer, then his sin will be as if he murdered him....."

Narrated Abu Huraira(RA):-

The Prophet(PBUH)said, "He who commits suicide by throttling shall keep on throttling himself in the Hell Fire (forever) and he who commits suicide by stabbing himself shall keep on stabbing himself in the Hell-Fire."

Hadith - Bukhari 7:670, Narrated Abu Huraira

The Prophet(PBUH) said, "Whoever purposely throws himself from a mountain and kills himself, will be in the (Hell) Fire falling down into it and abiding therein perpetually forever; and whoever drinks poison and kills himself with it, he will be carrying his poison in his hand and drinking it in the (Hell) Fire wherein he will abide eternally forever; and whoever kills himself with an iron weapon, will be carrying that weapon in his hand and stabbing his abdomen with it in the (Hell) Fire wherein he will abide eternally forever."

However, despite all these things it is also true that a person who commits suicide is a sinner, but he is still a Muslims.

MAY ALLAH FORGIVE US AND BE WITH US.AMEEN

Source:al-islam.org and hubpage

Tasfir of Chapter 113: Surah Al-Falaq (Daybreak)...

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

1. Say: "I seek refuge with the Lord of the daybreak,

Jabir says that Falaq means morning. The Qur'an itself says "cleaver of the daybreak" [Al-Qur'an 6:96]. Ibn 'Abbas says that Falaq means creation. Ka'ab al-Ahbar says that Falaq is a place in the Hell. When its gate is opened all the inmates of Hell cry out because of the intensity of its heat. Ibn Jarir and Imam Bukhari say that it means morning and this view seems reasonable. Allah directs believers to seek refuge in the Lord of the Falaq.

2. "From the evil of what He has created,

And to seek refuge from the evil of what He created. His creation includes Hell, Iblis (Satan) and his offspring.

3. "And from the evil of the darkening as it comes with its darkness,

One should seek refuge from the evil of nightfall. According to Ibn Zayd the Arabs called the setting of the star Pleiad as Ghasiq and believed that after its setting and at its rising, disease increases and spreads. Some commentators say that the word Ghasiq means moon. They base their argument on a Hadith that the Prophet a once held the hand of 'A'ishah and pointing to the moon, said, "Seek refuge from the evil of this Ghasiq." [Imam Ahmad]. However, the rising of the moon and the appearance of the stars are things that happen at night.

4. "And from the evil of those who practise witchcraft when they blow in the knots,

5. "And from the evil of the envier when he envies."

" ... witchcrafts when they blow in the knots" refers to sorceresses. Mujahid says that such incantations are nearest to polytheism as are made to blow on a snake bite or magic stricken man. A Hadith says that Gabriel came to the Prophet and said, "O Muhammad! Are you sick?" When the Prophet said yes, he said, "Invoke the Name of Allah against every disease that pains you, against the evil of every envier and against any evil eye. May Allah heal you." The disease referred to in this Hadith was probably a magic spell. Allah healed His Messenger and repelled that magic.

Ahmad ibn Hanbal reported that a Jew bewitched the Prophet and then he remained under its spell for several days. Then Gabriel came to him and informed him that such and such Jew had enchanted him and has hidden a knoted rope in such and such well. He asked him to send somebody to get it. The Prophet sent someone to bring them back, untied them, and the spell was broken. The Prophet never mentioned it to that Jew nor showed him any anger.

Bukhari reported a Hadith from 'A'ishah. She narrated that when the Prophet was bewitched under a magic spell, he thought that he came to his wives while he had not done so. Once he said to me, "I asked my Lord and He showed me. Two persons came and one sat near my head and the other near my legs. The man sitting near my head asked the other, 'What has happened to this man.' He said, 'He is under the a spell.' He asked, 'Who bewitched him?' He answered, 'Labid ibn A'sim from the Bani Zurayq tribe. They are allies of the Jews.' The man asked, 'What has charmed?' The other answered, 'The comb and the hair.' He asked, 'Where are those things?' 'In the well of Dharwan, under a rock.' " The Prophet sent 'Ali to the well and had the things dug out. I ('A'ishah) suggested that the magician should be punished. The Prophet said, "Praise is for Allah. He healed me. Now I do not like to incite people for me."

Source:SunnahOnline.com

Mentor...

You found a girl on the mud

You came to her and show the light.

Through you she learned

 And knew that there’s a God

You teach her to be strong

And say everything will be alright

Many trials came to her way

You say you will there till the end

You make her believed you will stay.

Why you left her alone in the dark

You think she already learn to face the fact

Now she felt weak, lost and sad

Alone and find her way to the light

Ya Allah forgive us

Show to us the way

The road is long

We can’t make it all alone

Please don’t leave us

Have Mercy on us

And make us strong…Ameen