A true story of Brother Fayaz Sofi of India.. |
Late afternoon when I was at work, teaching my student, I heard some people shouting nearby outside the school. I go out and check what’s happening outside, I saw an old man on a river starting to drown, I never waited to think twice to go and help him .Alhamdulilah I saved him with Allah’s help. After that incident when I was home taking my Iftar something’s bothering me, I felt so sad and almost in tears deep inside my heart, I felt something that I can’t explain, I can’t eat after Iftar. I remember my talk with him & he said he was so depressed and sick and wanted to take some fresh air along the river bank with his grandchild , and when he tried to getup , he accidentally fell in to the river. He felt so alone, he lived with one of his son and grandchild and when he asked his son and daughters to visit him they never came to meet him. It’s been along time when I saw them and spent time with them, I miss them too much, when they were kids I was soo happy watching them playing & laughing .Those days is one of my greatest moments with them. At this old age I’m seeking love and I care for my child as a parent, I’m so sick in my last stages of life. I Just asked some care before I leave this world but no one came. I feel so sad to that they are neglecting me. After I heard that story of him I started thinking and asked myself when we got married we left our parents and built our new life with our partners and kids we left our parents alone, yah at first we still remember them but many days comes, many years past we start to forget our parents because of our busy life, no visits, no calls and because of this they didn’t knew we hurt our parents
Quran says:
And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of honour. (The Holy Quran, Al-Isra, Chapter #17, Verse #23)
Because of this incident something comes to my mind and I felt I become attached to this man, for now on during my free time or when I go to my work I’ll try to visit or drop by to him, even for a while to talk to bring some presence to show to him that I care ,even though we are not related by blood. My heart says to do that. May Allah guide me and help me. Ameen
Brothers and sisters in Islam, ask yourself how much you love your parents? What you can do to make your parents happy, don’t wait till the time you will regret after all the days you neglected your parents. It’s not too late, show to them that you love them and love them the way they loved you in your childhood, show to them your care, how much they are important to you in your life. Make them smile in a simple way. Allah will reward you and be happy with you.
Quran says:
And We have enjoined on man to be dutiful and kind to his parents. His mother bears him with hardship and she brings him forth with hardship, and the bearing of him, and the weaning of him is thirty (30) months, till when he attains full strength and reaches forty years, he says: "My Lord! Grant me the power and ability that I may be grateful for Your Favour which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents, and that I may do righteous good deeds, such as please You, and make my off-spring good. Truly, I have turned to You in repentance, and truly, I am one of the Muslims (submitting to Your Will)."
(The Holy Quran, Al-Ahqaf, Chapter #46, Verse #15)
Islam has great respect to parents during their lifetime and thereafter through giving them exceptional rights, Allah ordains believers in Qura’n to be kind to their parents. [And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age (while) with you, say not to them (so much as) “uff” and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word. And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up (when I was) small.]
(Qura’n 17:23-24).
MAY ALLAH FORGIVE US AND GUIDE US. AMEEN