Dua Kumayl

Women In Islam...

We are the women of Islam
Protected not oppress
Precious like pearl
Beautiful behind the veil...

Without You...

Without you, to hold me

And heal my heart

To guide me, and keep me

From falling apart

My life is, so empty

So hollow, and cold

Footsteps, and echoes

Have no where to go

Without you, without you

I know, I'm all alone

I can't, go on this way

Day by day

Without you, without you

I know, I'm all alone

I can't, go on this way

Day by day

Without you

Who am I?

What am I to do?

My life's out of focus, and so out of use

I need you, to give me

The strength to go on

The reason, for hope

And writing this song

Without you, without you

I know, I'm all alone

I can't, go on this way

Day by day

Without you, without you

I know, I'm all alone

I can't, go on this way

Day by day

Without you, without you

I know, I'm all alone

I can't, go on this way

Day by day

Without you

Memories...

    Few days ago (may be 2 months) I (I’ m from Bangladesh) met an woman (in Philippines) in Facebook. We become friend and we were doing very well. I found she have many friends on facebook (more than 500). And she is also very helpful, open minded and true believer. After few days I got that, she got hurt by some of her friend and was depressed. I tried to console her. Then we become so closer. We share many times and many feelings. One of a time, I said her about Islam and ask her what she think about this. She replied, she have many Muslim friends, all of these are good. But she didn’t know about Islam specifically. She was "Iglesia Ni Christo" and Husband was "Catholic". Her husband converted into "Iglesia Ni Christo" for her love. They love each other since she was 16 or 18. Now she is 35 and they have 3 children, happy family.

  But when I inform her about Islam, she was so excited and move, that she wanted to learn more. Then I gave her some information like "Sign of Qyamat", Some special Hadith, etc etc...... At last after 1-2 week she decided to convert. But her family was totally against her. So I decided to recite her Kalima Shadat online. One night I ask her to take a bath (then recite Kalima Shatadat with me. That Day she was so crying and I found a new woman in her.

   I send her Sura and teach her Salah, but when she’s start to do that, her husband became angry and they argue too much. Then she said to me. She was too strong when husband talking to him but when she look at her child crying, she can’t handle that. She gave up and said to husband that, she will be again like before.

    Her husband like her to be cheering and wearing short dress ( which forbidden to Islam) But she is trying now to wear long sleeve. Her husband still suspect her when he find her wearing such dress. Even her husband didn’t like her chatting too much in fb. But now, he allowed her to chat with fb friends and said, it’s better than you accepting Islam. They fight 3 times for that. And she decided to give up finally. Then I request her to give me days, She have to follow my instructions. .

I sent her a copy of Quran and said her to recite Sura Fatiha She memorized Sura Fatiha, Ikhlas, Kawsar, Tashahud, Darude Ibraheem. And I m trying to make her memorize Aytul Kursi. I give her Process of Salah details. She is following these ...when Husband not home.

     In these few days, she change much, and she really want to be in Islam. But her husband told her clearly, if he see anything wrong, He can do whatever he like (even leave her). Now she is very scared. How long she can make it. And I’m scared too. Coz as long as I know her, she is too much soft minded, and her family can easily make her gave up. She said me once that- When She was crying, her young son come to her and said- mom, why do u do like that? She replied- I want all of u in safe at after life. Her son said- Mom its good not to be safe, but please don’t break our family.

    I found that the love between their husband and wife is so deep. But her husband never allowed Islam anyway.

     Dear brother..... please tell me...What should be her next step...so that She can be stay here in safe. May Allah help us all. Ameen

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     It's been 3 years when this situation happen Alhamdulillah! Allah gave this woman to saw Islam through that brother many things change many trials came good and bad, but she still holding in rope of Allah Her believed never change there are times she wants to gave up but ALLAH is good He always show sign to let her know how blessed she are to been choose to become Muslim... She believed everything happen has a reason even its too painful to accept such things that you can't imagine will happen as you hold for some promises that no one leave you. She learned that she don't need anyone else to be strong or happy she just need Her Lord Allah who love her unconditionally and never break his heart. Alhamdulillah! Ya Allah for everything still she coping day by day for the test of life... Life that brings too much tears in her eyes and she know well everything will end, every tears will dry and every broken heart will fix on that day she will meet His Lord Allah...Now she trying to be good and walk towards her Lord the road is long and many torn but she believed, she have faith and she knows Allah is with her....

May Allah guide us all to the right way and safe us and have Mercy on us.Ameen

Dua for Forgiveness..

O Allah! 

Forgive me all my sins, 

great and small,

the first and the last, 

those that are apparent 

and those that are hidden.

Ameen

Tears...

The Prophet said, 'There is nothing more beloved to Allah than two drops and two marks: A tear shed due to fear of Allah, and a drop of blood spilled in the path of Allah. And as for the two marks, then a mark caused in the path of Allah, and a mark caused by fulfilling one of the duties made obligatory by Allah."

(Hasan - collected by at-Tirmidhee and al-Mishkaat: 3837)

Hijab...

 

 

 

  I'm not oppressed nor a prisoner
I'm a slave/ servant of my Lord
I covered because I obeyed
To protect myself
From this sinful world of Dunya...

Alone in Tears...

The love that we shared

The dreams that we built

It’s already gone now

The broken promises of you

Tears continues pouring

Missing those memories of you

Time that I still have you

The first time I saw

The day that we spent together

The tears and laughter

Is just a history of love

Loved full of hope

How come it’s just fade away?

Like death leaves

Like death desert

My heart is death now

Day you left me alone in tears….

Choose to changed...

Assalamu Alaykum Wa Rahamtullah Wa Barakatuh...

    I'm a revert Muslima new in Islam still searching knowledge, myself, my life and how to live as Muslima. Alhamdulillah almost 3 years when my Lord Allah gave me a chanced to accept Islam and be His servant all this years days I am lost and lived in sins I can't imagine my life without Him. During the times of difficulties problems trials in life I'm so easy to give up and lose hope and there was a time I'm trying to killed myself to end everything Astagfirullah May Allah forgive us.Ameen

Quran says:

 "Be sure We shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods, lives, and the fruits of your toil. But give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere. Those who say, when afflicted with calamity, 'To Allah we belong, and to Him is our return.' They are those on whom descend blessings from their Lord, and mercy. They are the ones who receive guidance." (2:155-157)

   But when times He came to my life and show to me the light Alhamdulillah He always lift me up when times I'm in troubles and feeling down He always makes me feel I am not alone that He always beside me. I knew those time I'm still lack in knowledge and still weak for many things specially when hearts matter about friendship and attached to those people who become closed to me either sisters or brothers. I am a person who have soft heart love to cared, and loved to make other smiled even most of the time I am the one who felt pain and hurt, too much attached to them sometimes makes me feel lost and cried. Too much is always wrong. I always prayed and asked Allah to make me strong regarding this matters. Alhamdulillah day by day He teaches me to accept all the situation that everything happen have a reason every person came to your life will leave and changed because this life is just a test a temporary life everything will come and go for reasons.

"Verily man is in loss, except such as have faith, and do righteous deeds, and join together in the mutual enjoining of truth, and of patience and constancy." (103:2-3)

  As a Muslim we should not let our emotion above us we need to learned to controlled our feelings when this world matters. All we need is to put our Trust to Allah and Trust Him do good deeds, forbid wrong love one other for Allah's sake and be a good servant and slave to Him. We are believers in this life we must continue to live with Faith and Trust, Sooner or later you will found what for all the things you sacrificed for the patience and perseverance you give Allah will love you for obeying and walk to His path with smile in your heart.

"It is not righteousness that you turn your faces towards East or West.
But it is righteousness to believe in Allah and the Last Day,
And the Angels, and the Book, and the Messengers;
To spend of your substance, out of love for Him,
For your kin, for orphans, for the needy,
for the wayfarer, for those who ask, and for the ransom of slaves;
To be steadfast in prayer
And give in charity;
To fulfill the contracts which you have made;
And to be firm and patient, in pain and adversity
And throughout all periods of panic.
Such are the people of truth, the God-fearing.
Qur'an 2:177

Verily, with every difficulty there is relief.
Verily, with every difficulty there is relief.
Qur'an 94:5-6

     Alhamdulillah Allah gave me the courage to do a thing to leave everything for His sake and for my husband and family too.. Now I live with smiled and courage to continue this life with Hope, Trust and love and I knew one day I'll become a good Muslima In'sha Allah...

It's time to focus learning and doing good things May Allah help us.Ameen

May Allah help and guide us.Ameen

Ash-Shifa bint 'Abdullah al-Qurashiyyah al-Adawiyah...

The Companion Ash-Shifa bint 'Abdullah al-Qurashiyyah al-Adawiyyah was one of the wise women of her time. Literate in an illiterate age, she was skilled in medicine, involved in public administration, and had a strong presence in early Muslim history.

Al-Shifa embraced Islam before the Hijrah, and was one of the earliest to migrate from Makkah

to Madinah. She took the Pledge or Bay'ah to the Messenger, declaring loyalty to him before witnesses when it was still a dangerous thing to do.

Her real name may have been Laylah. Ash-Shifa is a title derived from her profession as a medicine woman; it means "healing." She used to conduct preventative treatments against antbite before the advent of Islam. After Hijrah, she approached the Prophet, and said, "Oh Messenger of Allah, I used to do preventative medicine for antbites during Jahiliyyah, and I want to demonstrate it for you."

He said, "Demonstrate it."

Ash-Shifa said, "So I demonstrated it for him, and he said '[continue to] do this, and teach it to Hafsah [a wife of the Prophet]." In another version he said, "Why dont you teach this one [indicating Hafsah] the preventative medicine against antbites, just as you taught her how to write?" She apparently taught Hafsah, and probably others, to write, at the personal request of the Prophet.

The Messenger used to visit her in her own home so frequently that she set aside a mat and a cover, or izar, for his use when he took his siesta there. She kept these momentos until her death and passed them on to her children.

The Messenger (peace be upon him) gave her title to a house in the Hakakin area of Madinah. His value for her company influenced the caliphs. As Caliph, 'Umar used to defer to her opinion. 'Umar's respect for Ash-Shifa's competence, character, and judgement led him to appoint her as an officer, or wali, in the administration of the marketplace. This makes her possibly the first Muslim woman to hold an official position in public administration.

Ash-Shifa narrates a good number of ahadith. Many Companions narrate ahadith on her authority, including Hafsah.

With her forceful character, influential counsel, and multiple professional skills, Ash-Shifa bint 'Abdullah must have been a major figure in early Muslim society, probably a household name.