Muslima A True Story....

My Deen or My Family....

    After I accept Islam many trials came to my life ....most of my family member got sick and hospitalize my husband feel upset and blame everything to me. Relationship with him become hard because of different belief and  I always told him He never Allah gave trials to test our faith on Him and everything happen to our life have a reason..And I believed on Him...

"Be sure We shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods, lives, and the fruits of your toil. But give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere. Those who say, when afflicted with calamity, 'To Allah we belong, and to Him is our return.' They are those on whom descend blessings from their Lord, and mercy. They are the ones who receive guidance." The Holy Quran (2:155-157)

   Still he never accept me being a Muslim for him Islam change me a lot the way I talk, the way I think, and most of all the way I dress he loves me seeing wearing shorts and tight shirt and jeans when I revert I change long shirt and long sleeve as my dress. But he appreciate the way I care for my family....but still he think I'm still like that before even I'm not Muslim..Many days come many tears drops many arguments, misunderstanding happen about religion and differences, kids suffer a lot because of this every time he want to me leave because of Islam...I always pray and make Dua to Him and leave everything to Allah I believed one day Allah will touch his heart the way He did to me show the light and walk in right path with me and with my family.

"And be steadfast in patience, for verily Allah will not suffer the reward of the righteous to perish."  The Holy Quran (11:115)

   Every day I feel pain It's hard to be only Muslim here ...Alhamdulillah Allah sent many brothers and sisters who help me to earn knowlegde and teach  me to be strong that every trials happen to our life this things make us stronger and more closer to Allah..Tears is become daily routine in my life but I smiled and happy because Allah loves me and He always there to guide me and help me. Alhamdulillah even days become hard because of trials it's make easy to me because He make me stronger everyday.

"Verily man is in loss, except such as have faith, and do righteous deeds, and join together in the mutual enjoining of truth, and of patience and constancy." The Holy Quran.. (103:2-3)

My family want to me choose between them and my Religion...Alhamdulillah I found my purpose of my life why I created  why I'm here you can take everything to me but not my Religion...I love Allah...I love Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) I love my Deen and I'm Proud I'm a MUSLIM....

Continuation....

Paradise is surrounded with hardships where as Hell is encompassed with lusts.....

Narrated Abu  Huraira (RA) , that Allah’s Messenger (PBUH) said:

When Allah created Paradise, He ordered Jibrae: “Go and see it.”

So he went and saw it. Then he returned and said: “O Lord, By Your glory! who hears of it would love entering it”.

Then He encompassed it with unpleasant things (hardships of worship) and said:” O Jibrael! Go (again) and see it.”

So he went away to look at it. Then he came back and said: “0 Lord, By Your glory! I fear that no one will enter it.”

The Prophet (PBUH) said: When Allah created Hell, He said: “O Jibrael, go and see it.”

So he went and saw it.

Then he turned up and said: “0 Lord, By Your glory! No one who hears of it will enter it.”

So he encompassed it with lusts (worldy desires) and said:

“O Jibrael! Go back and see it. He went again to see it and came back saying: “0 Lord, By Your glory! I fear that no one will escape from entering it.”

(This Haditn is fair and reported by Abu Da’ud, Tinnidhi (RA), Nasa’i, Ahmad in Musnad (RA) and Al-Hakim in Mustadrak (RA)

Allah has promised to give Paradise in reward to those who do good deeds for His sake. But man is misguided by the Satan and worldly lusts which cause him to do bad deeds that lead to Hell. He who undergoes hardships in the cause of Allah; these hardships will lead him to the enternal abode of pleasures.

BY: ISLAMIC REFLECTION...

SAHIH MUSLIM....

Salim(RA) reported on the authority of his father

that Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) said:

A Muslim is the brother of a fellow-Muslim.

He should neither commit oppression upon him

nor ruin him,

and he who meets the need of a brother,

Allah would meet big needs,

and he who relieved a Muslim from hardship

Allah would relieve him from the hardships

to which he would be put on the Day of Resurrection,

and he who did not expose (the follies of a Muslim) Allah would conceal his follies

on the Day of Resurrection.

Sahih Muslim (Book #032, Hadith#6250)

One Eye Mother A True Story....

My mum only had one eye, i hated her, she was such an embarrassment!
She cooked for teachers and students to support the family
There was one day during primary school where she came to say hello to me
I was so embarrassed, how could she do this to me!
I ignored her, threw a hateful look and ran out
The next day one of my class mates said "Eeww, your mum only has one eye!"
I wanted to bury myself, i also wanted my mum to disappear
So i confronted her and said, "If you're only going to make me a laughing stock, why don't you just die!"
My mum did not respond
I didn't even stop to think for a second about what i had said, because i was full of anger!
I was oblivious to her feelings, i wanted out of that house
So i studied really hard and got a chance to go to Singapore
Then i got married. I bought a house of my own. I had kids of my own and i was happy with my life
Then one day my mother came to visit me. She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't even meet her grandchildren!
When she stood by the door my children scared at her
I screamed at her, "How dare you come to my house and scare my children! Get out fo here now!
And to this my mother quietly answered, "Oh, I'm sorry i may have gotten the wrong address."
One day a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house
So i lied to my wife that i was going on a business trip
After the reunion i went to the old shack just out of curiosity
My neighbours said that she died
I did not shed a single tear
They handed me a letter she wanted me to have

To the smile of my life

My dearest son i think of you all of the time

I'm sorry that i came to Singapore and scared your children

I was so glad when i heard you were coming for the reunion

But i may not be able to even get out of bed to see you

I'm sorry i was a constant embarrassment to you when you were growing up

You see... when you were little, you got into an accident and lost your eye

As a mother i could not stand watching you having to grow up with one eye

So i gave you mine

Seeing a whole new world for me in my place with that eye

With my love to you

Your Mother

A Small Verse From The Quran

"We have enjoined on man kindness to his parents; in pain did his mother bear him, and in pain did she give him birth"

            Quran, Surah 46 Al Ahqaaf Verse 15

10 Wonderful reasons to be grateful to your mother...

1. Your mother carried you for 9 months bearing pain upon pain.

2. During this time, she could not eat becuase of you! She could not sleep because of you!

3. When you were a baby, she spent every minute of her life looking after you!

4. She only slept when you slept! She only ate after you had eaten!

5. She was patient and loved you even when you cried all night and when you cried all day !

6. She taught you how to walk, how to speak, how to eat, she taught you how to live!

7. When you fall ill, she looks after you!

8. She always cooks and prepared food for you !

9. She buys you whatever you ask for !

10. She loves you unconditionally !

A man came to Allah’s Apostle(PBUH) and said, “O Allah’s Apostle!(PBUH) Who is more entitled to be treated with the best companionship by me?” The Prophet (pbuh) said, “Your mother.” The man said. “Who is next?” The Prophet(PBUH) said, “Your mother.” The man further said, “Who is next?” The Prophet (PBUH)said, “Your mother.” The man asked for the fourth time, “Who is next?” The Prophet(PBUH) said, “Your father. ”
(Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 73, Number 2)